Nobody gets why I’m pissed about this. Why is it okay for him to get away with this shit?

I come home from picking up eggs from the store, and milk and a few other things. I had cleaned the living room top to bottom that day, since I was home. The kitchen was a mess, with gross dishes and the kids had made a mess on the floor from lunch. I was kind of hoping he’d maybe get on the stuff HE needs to do, plus maybe attack that mess from the kids lunch. I get home and not only is the kitchen the same, but there’s a mess in the living room from the kids and he left his food mess all over the place. This is the same guy who lets the kids have corn dogs for lunch and walk around while “eating” them (that means smushing them into the floor)

I say “oh, looks like you’ve been busy” and he gets all puffy and says “If you want me to do something say so”

Okay. Dude. You’re the primary caregiver. You ARE the stay at home parent. There is no way in fucking HELL this would fly if I had left the house to become a shithole and when asked about it say “well nobody TOLD me to do it”

You’re a lazy gross fucking piece of shit. You need to get a fucking job so I can stay home because this isn’t working. You leave the place a gross mess, you rarely change their diapers until they’re leaking and you forget TO FEED THE KIDS. Let’s discuss the time you thought the oven was a good place to leave an entire lasagna overnight. You fucking suck as a parent. I want to punch you.

There I said it. I feel better.